does anyone have a list

[joy]

Does someone have a list of what a person needs to keep handy of all the things you need in case you want to make a fast get-a-way? I remember I copied it before BrainTalk went down for my daughter but misplaced it. It was full of things that you would need but might not think to get. If anyone has such a list would you go ahead and post it. Just until JL gets the stickys back in place.

[stormsun]

Google Domestic violence Handbook,it has a lot of what you need and if someone is abusing you make sure that you erase your history on the computer, if he has access. If it is you be very careful, do not leave anything around that he can find, make sure you leave your pockets and handbags clear of any information, start hiding all old phone numbers and disquising relatives addresses names and phone numbers, get a post office box, make sure all personal papers are where they should be, have extra set of car keys, be the sneakiest person you can be and do not fall for anything he says. If you work do not take any phone calls from him, start using different routes, try and have a large person with you these abusers are cowards. Do not trust anyone and a lot of times that means your parents.I could go on and on, as soon as possible and are safe see a lawyer, use your lawyer as a go between not a friend. See a counselor for help so you won't be one of the many people that wind up in the same relationships again and again. Cash out your credit cards if you have to because he will, get all the money you can just in case. Do not let your kids talk you into anything,he will use them. Do not give anyone your new phone number and remember when you call anyone your caller id need to be disconected first.Be very very afraid, my abuser burnt my house down when he thought my daughter was there. Never could prove it to take it to court.

[MA6564]

Joy, there is a list in the thread I posted about recognizing and taking action on domestic abuse. Hope that helps.

[joy]

Thank you. I'll make copies and put in my tool box that I lock my medicine in. Then start trying to get DD to get to work on getting together things just in case it is needed.

[Kashis]

and need to get out put all your information in an empty wipey box this way nothing looks suspisious krissi

[joy]

Thank you Kashis. It is for my daughter and yes there is a small child. Sadly this is an ongoing thing and she is getting older all the time. But it is not as bad as it used to be so I'm thankful. But bad enough to cause me, a mother and grandmother to worry.

[Kashis]

Something To Remember If Your Spouse Or Other Half Has A Cell And You Do In The Same Contract He Can Track Your Calls By Internet As If Its His Account Stay Off Your Cell You Can Be Tracked If Your In Hiding This Is So Important I Have Seen It Done

Use Someone Elses Phone To Talk To Anyone So You Can't Be Found

[joy]

Very good tip about the phone. It is worth trying to remember and pass on to others.