Very sad news...

[oh_snap]

http://brain.hastypastry.net/forums/showthread.php?t=8210

DiMarie is a long time member of BT, and has helped many. The link leads to the other braintalk, and the news of her daughter, quite sad.

It is unfortunate that strangers on an internet forum could see this coming, but our medical/social support systems were both blind, and tied in knots that help for this dear girl, was not in the cards. Very sad.

Dimarie, you are your family have my sincere condolences.

[Bobbi]

What terrible news :(.

Thank you for letting us know, even as sad as it is.

I left a message for Di at Neurotalk and also the SD forum.

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Thank you, Bobbi.

[bewolf]

I am so sorry to hear of DiMarie's loss. I often read her posts and always found them to be helpful.

I'm not a member of the other brain talk - so could you please forward my prayers to her.

Thanks,
Bewolf

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bewolf,

She does check in here.

I am sure she will be able to see this thread, and will see your kind words when time allows.

[suede]

Thanks for posting this on the CP forum, I saw this and just felt so awful for her and her family that I didn't even think of doing this.
Has anyone heard from her or how she is doing..


God Bless you DiMarie and your family..

Linda

[oh_snap]

Linda,
Here is the link to a post from DiMarie: *******************************.com/showthread.php?t=11952

There is also some info for those that want to send cards or sign the electronic guestbook for Deanne.

http://www.legacy.com/TimesLeader/GB/PhotoAlbum.aspx?PersonID=86128144&EntryId=

[Matuboo]

What a beautiful girl, my thoughts and prayers are with her family.:(

[Lea]

God bless you sweet DiMarie.

Your baby was so beautiful. Praying for you and your family.

God bless,

Lea

[Mark N]

Thanks let us know about her and her daughter.

[GardeniaGirl]

That is very sad. I hope she is coping OK. What a sad thing to go through.....

[ErinENj]

My deepest condolences go to DiMarie and her family. I can't even begin to understand how hard this must be on her. No mother should ever have to see a sight like that.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Bobbi]

Just in case some haven't seen this, Di has posted this evening at BT's SD forum in this thread:

http://brain.hastypastry.net/forums/showthread.php?t=8340

Services for her daughter, Deanne, are tomorrow.

I lit a candle tonight and will do so tomorrow for Di and Deanne.

[Matuboo]

I didn't know the girl or her family but reading the link Bobbi provided really hit home with me because something similar occured in my family, years ago. A parent should never have to lose/burry a child, my grandparents had to burry two, I still can't imagine the loss, it's heartbreaking simply to read the story. I don't know any of the details (other than what was provided) but I hope this family has plenty of support. God Bless them.

M

[BrokenBladder]

My thoughts and prayers go out to you. (((((()))))!!!!!! Take Care and please talk to us anytime, we truly care!!!!!!!

[tenacious]

i believe this lady may have been one of my online friends about three years ago; i feel sooo bad for her and send her my love and prayers.

why are there two forums? how can i get a post to her?

thanks for your help.

[oh_snap]

Tenacious,
DiMarie and most of the long timer TOSers ended up staying at the other site/TOS forum.

Follow the link (the first post of this thread) back to the other TOS forum, and you will find a PO Box that a card can be sent to. You can also PM DiMarie as she still stops by here from time to time. She has always been DiMarie, but, I am not sure of the handle that Deanne used.

The TOS forum here is pretty much inactive now.

Best of luck.

[tenacious]

Tenacious,
DiMarie and most of the long timer TOSers ended up staying at the other site/TOS forum.

Follow the link (the first post of this thread) back to the other TOS forum, and you will find a PO Box that a card can be sent to. You can also PM DiMarie as she still stops by here from time to time. She has always been DiMarie, but, I am not sure of the handle that Deanne used.

The TOS forum here is pretty much inactive now.

Best of luck.

i am certain that we used to correspond about three years ago, both online and snailmail. this breaks my heart that i don't know how to know for sure........of course.. the loss is serious regardless.

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Ten,
I am very sorry...please don't hesitate to add your name to the obit book. I know that DiMarie would appreciate knowing that Deanne had a friend through you...

[DiMarie]

i believe this lady may have been one of my online friends about three years ago; i feel sooo bad for her and send her my love and prayers.

why are there two forums? how can i get a post to her?

thanks for your help.

Hello tencious,
I am not sure with the name change, I have an idea. I stop to read the chronic pain forum often and spinal this server. My daughter would go by Ms De but she read more then post as it hurt to type. LOL, she would write novella's to offer advice when she did.

When this server crashed so long oxer the summer and a second site was created as back up many of the posters have read both forums and post actively on the back up site too. Both are great homes, just some topic forums move faster.

I thank you for adding the kind thoughts. It is what gets me through the baby steps of the day. Without the massive support of foum friends I can say the grief and missing her would overwhelm me.

Because so many validate her life,her illness and keep their cyber arms always at my elbows it is a blessing.

There is a link here to the local paper obiturary and condolance book.
Please if you desire to add thoughts or read it makes me have valadation to my childs life. There is also a photo album. In the months time it goes off line I will use the offer to have it printed to always have my supportive, family and friends with me. I keep updated on: *******************************.com/forumdisplay.php?s=&daysprune=100&f=24

Bless you
Dianne
http://www.legacy.com/timesleader/GB/GuestbookView.aspx?PersonId=86128144

http://mi-cache.legacy.com/legacy/images/Cobrands/TimesLeader/Photos/Export_Obit_TimesLeader_24Kline_24Kline.photo.nofl ag.obt_20070124.jpg
Deanne M. Kline, of Mountain Top, passed away Sunday at her residence. Born in Wilkes-Barre, she was the daughter of Dean Kline and Diane (Dempkosky) Hopersberger, both of Mountain Top, and resided in this area all of her life.
Deanne battled Thoracic Outlet Syndrome and was a member of the Thoracic Outlet Support Group and the Neuro Talk Support Group. She was affiliated with the Mountain Top Baptist Church.
She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Joseph and Beverly (Claypotch) Dempkosky and Charles and Shirley (Moyer) Kline.
Surviving, in addition to her parents are brothers and sisters, Matt Kline, Michael and his wife Debbie, Kaitlynn Hopersberger, Dean Kline II and wife Carrie and Bradley Kline, all of Mountain Top; Tammy Hopersberger, N.Y.; step-parents, Brenda Kline and Tom Hopersberger; step-grandfather, Andy Claypotch, all of Mountain Top, along with nephews, Connor and Ricky.
Funeral services will be held at 11:30 a.m. Friday from the McCune Funeral Home, 80 Mountain Blvd, Mountain Top. Interment will follow at Albert Cemetery. Friends may call on Friday morning from 10 a.m. until the time of the service.
Published in the Times Leader on 1/24/2007.