Vitrionic people!

[Cry Tears]

Do you know someone like that....who is compelled to cut you down with their sharp double edged sword tongue?
I did....my sister. Her head is disporportionaly huge....I finally figured out why! It supports the sharp bladed tongue of hers physically able to slash down and injure others.
Its been 4 years since I've received the nasty blade! I'm so glad to be free of this....I put up with it far too long.
When I was very ill and needing blood transfusions....had an intestinal anuerism....my life was a virtual nightmare...also suffering Crohns disease causing a lot of pain. I begged her to just come into my hospital room and stay long enough for them to get the IV started....I have a needle phobia and horrible veins. My husband had to stay home because I was in the middle of being ID theft and our home in danger of being robbed by them...so it was necessary he stay home that day.
My sister rolled her eyes....stated "Its JUST a PROCEDURE"! ....Gosh you're making it more than what it is....how stupid you are.....!"
I barely got my foot out of her car as she drove off. She also argued telling me I did NOT have a room in the hospital...that I was just going to an infusion center! Not true...they always kept me 24 hours in my own hospital room every time (25 transfusions.....thats a lot of nights spent getting them, but hey...it was JUST a procedure!)
This same sister laughed at me for crying or being upset when my favorite Scotty dog got poisend and died.
She called my counsilor to tell her I needed to be committed into a psyche ward because I was upset about a stupid dog! My counsilor said this was one sicko sister...that she was the one needing locked up! She warned me that this sister was out to destroy me....horribly jealous and very dangerous because she's very smart....just about to get her PhD in psychology too!
Hey....anyone want to see her? She'll make one awesome and compassionate psychologist!!!! Oh Yeah?
Perhaps for people like Jeoffry Dahmer or Hitler!
I'm just glad she turned her back against me now....it was a blessing in disguise. My pet rattlesnake had more love than she ever did!
Here's her picture.....ooops...well...perhaps not her real photo...her hair is an inch longer than shown in this one....but pretty close likeness!

Here's some photos of nice people.
I've included photos of the frauders....got their photo off the Sheriff site.
It was her 13th felony conviction...they only slapped her hand for writting $25,000 of checks against my account in 3 days. She sure knows how to shop! Yippie!
One is my sister...guess which one!

[joy]

You don't need anyone in your life that is like that. I believe in forgiving. But it may take trying to forgive by making a great effort but just as big as an effort to avoid them as well. Perhaps at the same once in a great while eating out? That is what we are going to have to do if things do not improve between our tow grown children. And even then I don't think it will be plesant. My son feels like it is his place to correct his neice, our grandchild while WE are present. And no doubt he will feel the same way if her parents are present as well. Oh well ther is just so much you can do to to try and have family harmony. If everyone does not try, it is impossible. A lot of people know how I feel about my son in law and his parents. Yet we can be in each others presence and if you did not know us and was just observing us, you'd think we were the best of friends. I believe in trying to be polite and well just trying or not sying too much that would invoke a nasty response. I have to admit I have had to give up on my two sister in laws on hubby's side. I do my part but they won't even hardly speak. And I didn't start it. But Im still working on that as well. Went to the worst ones house Saturday because the other was over visiting. Now mind you I was not told of the visit until I tracked down my hubby. He asked if I wanted to come over, thinking I wouldn't. Wrong. I did the same thing last year and got to see the oldest and she gave me a hug. She understands how her sister are. Well she died just a short time after that. So I feel good about that visit and I know that she and I wre ok with each other. That helps me tremendously now. so I will keep trying with the other two. But I WON'T do it all. They are going to have to be willing. I know too much about the both of them really and it is not likeable stuff. It is sad though because I don't get to see his neice whom I love. Her mother is ALWAYS with her two kids. So that makes it hard for me to see the one I want to see. I know she understands as her mother is so domineering. When she started in on my kid she went to far thjough. lol. But it was the fact I could not go shopping, eat out, etc. for two years that made it worse. She also had a BIG part in turning my son againmst his sister. So it is hard. Can you imagine how lonely I was at the hospital that whole week without ANY family? Yes YOU can.

[Buttons2]

Cheryl, you always get me to chuckle! Thanks for sharing.....

Have a good day....Pati

[Boopers]

I am so sorry this happened but know a little how you feel. I don't have a sister but my SIL tried everything she could to make my life miserable. I dissassociated with her for almost five years because I just couldn't take anymore.
Finally, a few months ago, she has been slowly trying to make amends. I forgive her but I will never trust her again. If she wants to stay in my life, she is going to have to prove worthy of being in my life. It's hard because I lose my brother and don't get to see him but I have to do it for my sense of well being. The stress level was just too high.
I do hope you find peace and happiness in your life without your sister. It sounds like she is so jealous of you, she can't stand it. How sad! Just remember, what goes around, comes around and your sister will get her's someday!!
Take care,
Linda