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cheyriver
03-06-2009, 05:29 PM
I haven't been around for awhile..

My wrist seems alot better since surgery, thank goodness.

I found out I will need another surgery on my elbow for ulnar nerve compression. They will be transposing the nerve to a different location to see if that helps.

I also injured my other wrist.:( I've been to four doctors and none of them were sure whether I had fractured my scaphoid bone. I finally had to go to an ER and was referred to an orthopedic. I saw him today and he said there isn't an obvious large crack but possibility of a tiny fracture with a sprain. He wasn't really sure because he said the scaphoid is tiny, hard to see small fractures on xrays.I'm wearing a half cast/splint for three weeks until my next followup. I can't have my left elbow operated on until my right wrist heals.

I've had a difficult time with doctors in general about my past abuse. A few of them know some of the history. At one point I thought about a second opinion from another surgeon and heard of a good one. I asked the doctor if I could be referred to this particular surgeon because I heard he is good. I was told that this doctor would not be interested in seeing you. I asked about another one and was told the same. After all that I was told I don't think there will be too many doctors out there who will want to help you. It makes a victim/survivor feel worse hearing that stuff. I don't plan on going back.

You know what is odd.. I've had two female doctors and I don't find them as understanding of abuse compared to one or two male doctors I had in the past. I'm not saying all female doctors are this way but so far this is what I have experienced.

tic chick
03-07-2009, 03:43 PM
chey*bunch,

i'm glad your one wrist is recovering from surgery and sorry about your other wrist now hurting!

you know, when you expect understanding from the medical field and you are let down, it's like a punch in the stomach!

i have tourette syndrome and went to a surgeon once. he actually made a joke about my ts! i was amazed, and not in a good way. of course, i never went back to him and i told my primary care doc what had happened.

but, the good thing that came out of it was that the next surgeon i went to diagnosed my problem rapidly. the first surgeon was treating me with prescription antacids, whereas the second surgeon did an endoscopy right away and found out my problem.

i would recommend him to anybody who needs anykind of general surgery.

so, the good docs make the money, the bad ones lose patients.

take care of yourself, chey,
jeannie

Kashis
03-09-2009, 06:08 PM
Hi dear so glad to see you back but so sorry about your other wrist I had both wrists done a month apart and had a 4 yr old at the time it was bad then 2 months later had the ulnar nerve done the scar is nasty so get some scar creame good stuff for after its healed I hate that scar but I missed you and and I glad just as me your kinda here with us Hugs Krissi