First my dad had one Now my mom has one

[cinday]

And I had one 13 years ago that was clipped. My grandfather had one 40 years ago.
Yesterday my mom was rushed to the hospital and diagnosed with aneurysm. Her brain is still bleeding and I just can't take this. I am not handling this very well and I didn't know where else to turn...I was a member on the old forum but lost touch got cocky. I have had a close friend die and a brother in law die from aneurysms. I feel like I can't accept what is happening and I can't get my self back to the hospital its already 11:30 and I am still not dressed but I am freaking out. I was there yesterday and some last night but this is killing me and the doctor is a mean busy man. Has anybody noticed the way the medical people treat us survivors..I feel like they think we were bad and thats why the rupture so they look down on us. I started smoking after 6 free years and every time I walk into my moms hospital and talk to the nurse I reek of smoke and I try to use a light perfume but that is just as bad. right? I am just so lost and I needed to try to make sence to people that know why I am the way I am.

[Buttons2]

First let me welcome you back to BT Cinday. I'm not in your shoes but can imagine how scary this must be for you. I don't have any knowledge of annie's. I think you'll get more replies if you post on the annie thread-it's very active.

I do hope you'll stick around. Find a place you feel comfortable being. We have a wonderful support group on the Emotional Support forum,please feel free to post there. Sometimes it helps alot just to vent & know someone is paying attention & does care.

Meanwhile,take care of YOU. Maybe go for a walk on the beach? Anything to wipe out the image of the hospital & your mom being there.

Good luck!

[Nana4&cntn]

Hi Cinday and welcome to BT, I hope you find this site as a wonderful place to receive support and information.

I can only imagine how afraid for your mom you must be. I hope you were able to see your mom today as I think you will be a tremendous comfort to her.

http://brain.hastypastry.net/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=85 This is a link to the aneurysm forum here, it is a very busy forum, please start a new thread and you will find a lot of support.

http://brain.hastypastry.net/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=10 This is a link to the Forum for Emotional Support, Buttons was talking about. Please feel free to join us and we will also provide as much support for you as we can.

I think you and your family and friends have been dealt a raw deal with all of the annies! I know you have personal experience and can be a tremendous support for others once your mom is out of danger. As far as your mom's doc, she has the right to dismiss her 'holier than thou assinine" that is looking down on you and your mom. He has a duty to provide the best care possible for his patients, please don't be afraid to let him know that! Doc's put their pants on the same as anyone else.

Sweetie take care and please keep us posted as to how your mom and you are doing.

All my best,
Kathy

[jess2002]

Hi there I am sorry you have to be here but welcome to bt, you have had it bad well all your family have hope your mom gets better soon. Jess

[bar]

I am new to this forum.I am horrified with your experience.I pray god for your mom's health


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