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Jennifer27
01-17-2009, 08:44 PM
Hello,

Just wanted to introduce myself to everyone and i am hoping that being apart of something like this will help me cope with having epilepsy. I was diagnosed when i was 16 i am now 24 and having a hard time because all of a sudden i am having seizures and the docs say that my meds are just not absorbing well after being on the med for 8 years. But for some reason i feel like there is more to it but i feel like i'm really not getting heard by the docs. Its all because the main fact is that there is no cure and no doc can guarantee anything. Its just a matter of changing meds and trying to figure it out. I feel like a rat in a lab and i feel so terribly up set. Why so upset now? when i have had it since i was 16.... well my meds always took and there was never an issue. When i ever had seizure it was usually do to partying to much (alcohol) so that has stopped and i no longer do that. I started a lot research since this all happened thats how i got introduced to something like this and have realized that alot of epileptics experience this and wonder how they live there life when they really don't know if today they are going to wake up and realize that they had a seizure. That scares the **** out me (excuse the language) but that is the truth. I feel like i will never get past this and live happily if i have to live in fear everyday and every moment. How does one do this?

In the last past week i have had seizures at work. One grad mual and the other tonic/clonic seizure. It causes so much fear! I am also a mother of a 22 month year old and not knowing whats going on puts great fear in my heart for my daughter. And having these unexpected seizures just puts a big hold in my life and i have to start living differently...or do i? I am so lost and confused and i feel so alone. any advice will help i just don't know what to do anymore. Or you can email me at Jennifer.koepp@yahoo.com to discuss things back and forth there as well. Like i said i'm new at this so hopefully i can find my way back to this site to read your advice and comments. Thanks for your time. And if there is any way i can help you just say it and i will do what i can.

Mal L
01-18-2009, 04:04 PM
Well, ideally you should have a sharp, caring doctor. One thing you can do is to keep a written record of what medicines you have been taking and when, and then, any episodes you have and when. This is important information for the doctor to go by.

moose53
01-18-2009, 06:09 PM
Hi, ((((((Jennifer)))))),

Welcome to BrainTalk http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v90/moose53/MINIS/HUGS/amixcora.gif.

We've got two forums here that can probably help you learn to cope with "all this": Child Neurology (http://brain.hastypastry.net/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=115) forum and Epilepsy (http://brain.hastypastry.net/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=144) forum.

You're going to get the kind of support that you need from both of these forums.

Another couple of things to think about are: the Ketogenic diet which has shown good results for many-many people who suffer with epilepsy that is not being controlled well with just drugs; and getting a dog that alerts on seizures (I think this would give you a huge feeling of safety, in terms of your child).

I hate that you have to be here. I hate seizures. But, this is one of the best places to be to get the kind of emotional support and just plain, practical advice that you need.

Hugs.

Barb

Buttons2
01-18-2009, 08:43 PM
Welcome to BT Jennifer. I hope you will soon feel at home here. Sometimes just knowing you aren't alone in your fear,etc. can be a tremendous help. I hope you'll find some answers soon & be able to just go about your life.

Take care