Kashis
11-18-2008, 09:09 AM
letter of change copy paste send be a hero
Lets work together and change the laws
To whom it may concern:
Its time to make a difference and make the awareness known and show we all care I can't do this alone I need all of your help I have written the goals and I have made it easy
1st of all we know to raise awareness and then I would like to go even further to get laws stricter on domestic violence I am tired of victims being scared to call out for help; that's one of the biggest problems
I want those who help them family member to temporarily be able to make decisions for them until they go through the channels to get help they need not just a shelter I want this added in the law if there are no loved ones to help then someone assigned to show they care for them and have helped others in the situation more or less a new job title domestic violence victim guardian angel if there are drugs and alcohol involved I want them to learn about sobriety as this is important to there healing
As if they do get help there afraid of revenge of the abuser when he gets out or what the fines will cost the family it will take there home away there food supply etc..... this goes through the heads of the abused
I want new laws that
the first time your put in jail for abuse you will not get out till you go through all classes like a sex offender program nothing less then a year I want the victim given one of them button things like senior citizens get for fear of danger that they can keep hidden that calls police automatically
Instead of restraining orders which some have died in court being shot by the abuser and shot no matter if there is a order or not these don't stop any abuser as they are determined to get revenge and you have to pay for restraining orders and most victims go and void it out of fear
If there is a second offence I want that jerk to sit for 5 yrs. Which again, there is no assistance for victims if their offender is the main income. I want a law that keeps them on their feet until they can get help of some sort.
I want victims to have to go to classes mandatory to learn just how wrong abuse is after the first charge and to help them stop the cycle.
We can't make a victim change their mind but we can make a difference with awareness and better laws to support this.
The biggest problem now is that the abusers are getting out of jail with the-- "I am sorry" etc. And next thing you hear is there is another dead victim. It's sickening and must stop.
3rd offence at least 10-20 yrs I want abusers treated just like a violent criminal like robbery; as they are robbing their victim's life of liberty and sanity.
I will work to do this until the day I die. I will find the right channel. I will make a difference some how. It may take many years, but I am determined, and won't stop until I make a difference.
This will be my biggest goal. Abuse won't stop unless laws change and victims no longer have to live in fear. Secondly, when an abused person gets free of the abuser, the abuser goes to a new victim, of which the new victim is not, and cannot-- be aware of his past criminal behavior towards women. Certainly, the abuser isn't going to tell his new victim of his past criminal history. There should be some law that requires abusive people to register as abusers, the same as sexual abusers are required to register. In this way a woman, or a man, so be the case, are able to check the record and know with whom they are dealing with in a new relationship.
Too many people I have talked with are survivors and still live in fear each day for them to return with the final blow. There are survivors who continue to live in fear, which continues to give the abuser the upper hand.
Usually an abuser will sit over night and they're out. What good does this do? NONE. What do they learn? NOTHING. Abuse is a disease just as alcohol and needs to be seen that way and must be fixed. When an abuser cannot be treated, with the classes set up for Domestic Violence after the first offense, they need to be treated as criminal predators and treated as criminals, by incarcerating them to the maximum penalty.
So these are some of my goals and I won't see it as impossible. I will do it, some how, some way. This can be done I will contact whom ever I need to get this done. I have faith. It is a matter of stopping the violence, and can be done
I cannot do this on my own. People have to start contacting the candidates and pushing the subject---please help.
Here are some facts:
A man cuts the head off a duck gets 81 days in jail---
a man beats his wife, and gets a night in jail.
I love animals but this is a little strange. Anyone involved in animal abuse such as, **** fighting, dog fighting, etc, are imposed more penalty than an abuser of another human being.
When a stranger assaults a person they look at jail time and fines. Domestic violence offenders get maybe a night in jail at most. 2nd and 3rd time offenders may be ordered Anger Management and Domestic Violence classes in some instances, and they are let out without any prison time, put back out into society on an informal probation possibly, without the probationer being required to show to anyone any change in their life.
IT IS TIME FOR CHANGE. Let's stop calling it Domestic Violence and calling it what it really is in HOME TERRORISM.
Sincerely,
The Victims the Survivors and there friends and family
Email this to everyone friends family lets get this going when we hit 1000 or you see one getting close please email it to petition4abused@aol.com I will start sending them to the white house myself all you have to do is get this sent out and get everyone you can to sign it its not that hard and you may just have saved a life
Lets work together and change the laws
To whom it may concern:
Its time to make a difference and make the awareness known and show we all care I can't do this alone I need all of your help I have written the goals and I have made it easy
1st of all we know to raise awareness and then I would like to go even further to get laws stricter on domestic violence I am tired of victims being scared to call out for help; that's one of the biggest problems
I want those who help them family member to temporarily be able to make decisions for them until they go through the channels to get help they need not just a shelter I want this added in the law if there are no loved ones to help then someone assigned to show they care for them and have helped others in the situation more or less a new job title domestic violence victim guardian angel if there are drugs and alcohol involved I want them to learn about sobriety as this is important to there healing
As if they do get help there afraid of revenge of the abuser when he gets out or what the fines will cost the family it will take there home away there food supply etc..... this goes through the heads of the abused
I want new laws that
the first time your put in jail for abuse you will not get out till you go through all classes like a sex offender program nothing less then a year I want the victim given one of them button things like senior citizens get for fear of danger that they can keep hidden that calls police automatically
Instead of restraining orders which some have died in court being shot by the abuser and shot no matter if there is a order or not these don't stop any abuser as they are determined to get revenge and you have to pay for restraining orders and most victims go and void it out of fear
If there is a second offence I want that jerk to sit for 5 yrs. Which again, there is no assistance for victims if their offender is the main income. I want a law that keeps them on their feet until they can get help of some sort.
I want victims to have to go to classes mandatory to learn just how wrong abuse is after the first charge and to help them stop the cycle.
We can't make a victim change their mind but we can make a difference with awareness and better laws to support this.
The biggest problem now is that the abusers are getting out of jail with the-- "I am sorry" etc. And next thing you hear is there is another dead victim. It's sickening and must stop.
3rd offence at least 10-20 yrs I want abusers treated just like a violent criminal like robbery; as they are robbing their victim's life of liberty and sanity.
I will work to do this until the day I die. I will find the right channel. I will make a difference some how. It may take many years, but I am determined, and won't stop until I make a difference.
This will be my biggest goal. Abuse won't stop unless laws change and victims no longer have to live in fear. Secondly, when an abused person gets free of the abuser, the abuser goes to a new victim, of which the new victim is not, and cannot-- be aware of his past criminal behavior towards women. Certainly, the abuser isn't going to tell his new victim of his past criminal history. There should be some law that requires abusive people to register as abusers, the same as sexual abusers are required to register. In this way a woman, or a man, so be the case, are able to check the record and know with whom they are dealing with in a new relationship.
Too many people I have talked with are survivors and still live in fear each day for them to return with the final blow. There are survivors who continue to live in fear, which continues to give the abuser the upper hand.
Usually an abuser will sit over night and they're out. What good does this do? NONE. What do they learn? NOTHING. Abuse is a disease just as alcohol and needs to be seen that way and must be fixed. When an abuser cannot be treated, with the classes set up for Domestic Violence after the first offense, they need to be treated as criminal predators and treated as criminals, by incarcerating them to the maximum penalty.
So these are some of my goals and I won't see it as impossible. I will do it, some how, some way. This can be done I will contact whom ever I need to get this done. I have faith. It is a matter of stopping the violence, and can be done
I cannot do this on my own. People have to start contacting the candidates and pushing the subject---please help.
Here are some facts:
A man cuts the head off a duck gets 81 days in jail---
a man beats his wife, and gets a night in jail.
I love animals but this is a little strange. Anyone involved in animal abuse such as, **** fighting, dog fighting, etc, are imposed more penalty than an abuser of another human being.
When a stranger assaults a person they look at jail time and fines. Domestic violence offenders get maybe a night in jail at most. 2nd and 3rd time offenders may be ordered Anger Management and Domestic Violence classes in some instances, and they are let out without any prison time, put back out into society on an informal probation possibly, without the probationer being required to show to anyone any change in their life.
IT IS TIME FOR CHANGE. Let's stop calling it Domestic Violence and calling it what it really is in HOME TERRORISM.
Sincerely,
The Victims the Survivors and there friends and family
Email this to everyone friends family lets get this going when we hit 1000 or you see one getting close please email it to petition4abused@aol.com I will start sending them to the white house myself all you have to do is get this sent out and get everyone you can to sign it its not that hard and you may just have saved a life