joy
10-07-2008, 01:29 PM
Do you feel like this is Y O U !!!
I saw my hubby's cousin last week at our annual family reunion.
One daughter is getting to take care of her soon to be 94 year old mother. She was the one that had to take care of the dad until his death in his 90's as well.
It seems that in every family there is alwats ONE person that has to do the job. If you are it, you will need your strength!
The rest of the family moved AWAY and you are it. If not that, they have jobs, well a life and they chose you.
At least we know why you got the job. It really is because you wre the best one for it. The most compassionate, the most capable well willing to do it.
I love you already. But you need to know that you have to reserve your strength for YOU.
I may be bac as best I can. This is really just another option for those of you that had the job or is still trying to do the job yourself.
It's a big one. Pull on your big girl boots and get to work but take time to do something for yourself and the rest of the family as well.
I made some of the best connections I ever had right her and I never thanked them enough
gently hugs to you all
{{{{HUGS}}}}
I saw my hubby's cousin last week at our annual family reunion.
One daughter is getting to take care of her soon to be 94 year old mother. She was the one that had to take care of the dad until his death in his 90's as well.
It seems that in every family there is alwats ONE person that has to do the job. If you are it, you will need your strength!
The rest of the family moved AWAY and you are it. If not that, they have jobs, well a life and they chose you.
At least we know why you got the job. It really is because you wre the best one for it. The most compassionate, the most capable well willing to do it.
I love you already. But you need to know that you have to reserve your strength for YOU.
I may be bac as best I can. This is really just another option for those of you that had the job or is still trying to do the job yourself.
It's a big one. Pull on your big girl boots and get to work but take time to do something for yourself and the rest of the family as well.
I made some of the best connections I ever had right her and I never thanked them enough
gently hugs to you all
{{{{HUGS}}}}