Restroom problems

[maryc]

My DH has problems when he goes to a restroom in a restaurant or any public place. He has no problems with 'going' to the restroom, its finding his way out that presents a problem. I think he can't figure out all the doors?? Anyone have this problem or a suggestion on what could be done? This is the only problem we have as far as going out.

[Tootsie]

Mary, I have encountered this particular aspect of Alzheimer's Disease only once before. I was at a wedding when the aunt of the bride came in the rest room at the same time I was there. She was a lovely lady whom I had never met before, and she was very articulate in describing how she became "lost" in restrooms. Others were with her, but I was impressed with how normal she seemed.

I wish I had some advice for you, but other than traveling with groups that include other men who could accompany your husband to the rest room, or frequenting places that have "family" restrooms, I don't see any good answer.
Any suggestion, like putting a coat or jacket, or even a ribbon on the handle of the exit door, would not likely be something that would be easy for him to use, or even remember to use.

"Family" restrooms are one large room with toilet, wash basin, and a changing table for diapering babies, accessible to wheelchairs, are available in some newer buildings. In those, you could go with him. You might try calling ahead to see if such a facility is available in the places you plan to go. For shorter trips, you might see that he goes to the toilet before you leave home, and also monitor his fluid intake to be more aware of when he will need to urinate.

I know this sounds like just one more thing for you to plan and do, but by being able to get out of the house, you maintain the semblance of a normal life style. Treasure those moments and make the most of them while you can.
We never know just how many more of those times will be available to us. Cheerio.