where did everyone go let me know u ok

[Kashis]

and further more is everyone ok I see all these posts I write and i miss talking to everyone at least check in to say I am ok on this post I am worried about alot of you please don't let me worry

[blossom4th]

Hi Krissi,
So sorry that you've been worrying about us!!! When I saw the thread title,it caught my attention and I thought I'd better check in pronto! I don't want you worrying!!! Btw,I saw the statistics you posted on domestic violence;that was a nice job you did! The very next day in Indianapolis,there was a murder-suicide.The young couple had argued,and the wife walked away.When she came back 2 hrs later with her mother,the wife found their 8 yr old daughter shot to death,as well as her husband.Lately,there have been so many young children caught up in violence,losing their innocent lives. :(

[tic chick]

hey krissi...

doing fine here. yesterday i spent all day cleaning so i could go to a party at night :).

it's sweet that you are concerned about us. now that i know, i'll make it a point to check in *smallheart.

i hope you are doing well.

oh, have you ever checked out http://www.mysistersplacedc.org/msptime.asp ? this is the group started by nicole brown simpson's sister after o.j. simpson was acquitted of murdering nicole and ronald goldman. there is a "volunteer" section on the website you might be interested in and also a "get involved" section.

hope you are having a peaceful weekend, krissi*bunch,
jeannie

[Kashis]

I will check out that sight your storie about the child that happen in my family my cousin was abused by her husband and left him he decided to take action told her you leave me this is a package deal he shot my lil cousin and himself afterwards I know that all to well she was only 4 yrs old and being abused its just got to stop and we can't stop it if we don't stand up

[blossom4th]

Krissi,
I know without a doubt that you have got sincere and noble intentions by wanting to get involved with groups fighting against domestic abuse! Indeed it is a global problem with intense proportions! It has caused so much suffering;not only for the victims, but for their families who love them so much!
While not ignoring this problem,the way I have chosen to 'fight' it, is by engaging in a worldwide bible educational program that gets to the source of the problem;such as identifying the source of all of the evil in the world and helping people to see how the bible can provide needed guidance for life and make positive changes in their lives,as well as giving people a true hope for the future. :)

[tic chick]

hey krissi!

hope you are having a good day today.

any luck in resizing that blue ribbon on your computer? it would be a good idea to have a domestic violence awareness week, just like they have weeks for other things that affect women, like breast cancer and of course this week is heart awareness week. i am sure as many women are affected by domestic violence as they are by these diseases.

and the good thing is, we can help women to leave a situation where they are a victim of this and want to leave.

keep spreading the word,
jeannie

[Kashis]

I have the ribbon link this site won't allow nothing bigger then 2.2 kb

I haven't done much today I have decided to make a myspace page dedicated to dv as this is a start for me somewhere

I love the bible stuff as thats also awesome I know is global but I look at the mental abuse post and its almost made it to 2000 which really makes me feel there is a difference being made even if a small dent people are reading and I feel good inside but my goal now is to build a page

I got devestating news that my friends baby died where another friend his wife was pregnant never told him so she could drink and then tried to get the baby adopted out before he found out thank GOD he took her to er or he would have never known I am just trying to figure out how can one mother love her child so much and loose it and the other not want her child and have it not that I don't love that baby as he is a fighter but I am all confused

My fam back home is having a crisis who do they call me of course so I am having panic attaks and just numb so to say

I don't know what to say to my friend and this friend went to college to take classes for psycology on domestic abuse as what she seen me go through she is now a counsler for this and helping others she is the one who lost the baby I watched her grow up from a lil girl to a wife and mother

she has used my posts to help others so I am just at a loss right now but glad all are checking in I feel like a mom LOL but I worry about all
I am worried about javasi haven't heard from her either so hope were all ok and check in more often even if we don't post at least we can say here like in school LOL like a roll call in this topic we all need to know were ok were all out for each others backs so to say and I wouldn't want to loose any of us

sorry I am so lost right now but my goal is to build a myspace page and I have already contacted martina mcbride on sights and things to add to this page it will be awesome

I know the songs will be concrete angel independence and in the arms of the angels and the ribbon will be the layout my posts only not yours unless you give me permission will be posted as blogs I am not like them jerks who take our pain for there profit but the posts that i started I want to add

I am going to start this project for one I need something to do and for two well this dv something is pushing me to help make a bigger difference then I already have

ok now when the mental abuse topic hits 2000 I am going to bake a cake an share it with all of you somehow they have to have a cake graphic for signature LOL

and I hope you all put that attacthment on your signature to help spread the ribbon and if you can figure out how to get it up so the words can be seen do that too lets stand up for survivors victums and speak up and speak out and put a stop to this and most of all keep praying

[blossom4th]

Oh Krissi!
I am so sorry that you're going through such a rough emotional time right now! :( A good friend of mine just became a great grandmother and feels so badly because her grandaughter is 18 yrs old and on drugs and neglecting the baby.At the same time,another couple in my friend's family has been trying to have a baby for years! Babies are miracles;gifts from God....to be loved and appreciated! :)

I hope that things calm down at home so that your panic attacks 'let up', and you can gather your thoughts so as to be supportive of your friend who lost her baby.She'll need alot of loving support and understanding.Patience,too.

It sounds like you have alot of good ideas for your page/blog! :)

I've been worried about not hearing from Javisi,either.I keep telling myself that maybe it's because she couldn't get her computer fixed and can't afford a new one;her son is home & grandaughter is also living with her,so she must be keeping busy and be tired......AND SHE'S SUPPOSED TO BE GETTING MARRIED THIS MONTH! :)

[Kashis]

I hope she is ok javasi I worry so about her miss her disney characters too I love disney

I wrote a letter to martina mcbride to see what kind of things are being done by ****** and I have so many ideas I can't wait to get it up and will let all know when I do for those who have myspace to see it

as bad of a thing it is I am excited to start spreading more awareness I always said I lived through this for a reason and everyone in life has a purpose lately its been in my head so much that I can't let it go

I looked at this forum and realized just how much I have to contribute how much i have to say and just how much I can make a lil dent in a big situation I have all you to thank for that too as you all looked at my posts and liked what i wrote and wrote back understood and accepted what I had to say

and because of that I feel I can make a difference I feel GOD is driving me to do this its such a strong powerful feeling lately I can't stop it I just don't know how to explain without sounding crazy of some sort

I can't pat myself on the back or nothing like that as we all are a part of this and many more but I can try if at first we don't succedd try try again isn't that the saying I started this forum again answering one question and I haven't stopped since gosh just about the whole page is my posts I feel kind of akward for that but I am a talker and with tbi I can't talk like a normal person so I write it in words

I have people in my myspace page tell me to keep writing as my words make a difference I have had people that were abused to afraid to admit it write me on my page to tell me don't stop as I am writing things they never could

I can do this I am a survivor and will create many more this is my goal I know that didn't sound right but sometimes I can't phrase things the way they should be phrased

I have all you to thank for the courage you have given me to be a fighter not of harmful fighting but a fighter for those who can't fight for themselfs right now


I am hanging in there my daughter is taking care of me tonight she is worried bout me so its good with me someone is here cause I am still under life watch for fear of me passing out and hitting my head till the 19th so she is the one who backed away and is now here for me

the one that was here for me has now well been distant and many of us think she is being abused I have a post here what would you do telling about that and maybe me building this page will make a difference for her in her life to open her eyes and remind her I stopped the cycle for a reason

I have heard so much how she is mentally abused and now he has the hots for my youngest he is her boss thats sick and this is what I am up against so yes I am going to do this and when I finish that page I want you all to come an sneak a peak you won't have to sign up just go to the sight and look at the page at least I hope you all will do this when I get it done

and to show I am only using my posts I wouldn't want anyone to get hurt as we have all been punished enough if you could add a ribbon to your page I would truely appreciate it and also I love the Idea of stop the violecne week or day even if we just have it here maybe like valentines cause we want to show love and stop hurt and hate I am going to look into this with a search or too and see if one exists I think there is one I will get the info man I think I am going to print just my posts alone and start a book at the rate I am going I am on my way to a novel again just my posts

[Kashis]

so thought it was time to check in and say I am ok how is everyone off to the doctor today hopefully I get off life watch that would be sweet as the dizzys have slowed and chest pains have stopped

[blossom4th]

Krissi,
Oh dear! I'm sorry,I didn't realize you had been sick!!! :eek: Update me please! I'm doing ok...just keep hoping I don't catch the flu! :rolleyes:

[tic chick]

glad you're doing better, krissi.*bunch i have missed you the last few days!

jeannie

[Kashis]

Well I have been taken off 24-7 life

[Kashis]

well I have been taken off 24-7 life watch the chest pains stopped and the dizzy spells have slowed down so its great I have a few female problems goin on I had a double lump removed from my inner leg right on panty line and another may be growing so we have to wait an see but its healing nicely for more details pm me as Its a lil hard to post it here as I said female thing I am hanging in there by next week it will be migraines and that every 28 day aunt ruby visit which is going to make the incision worse to heal as said pm me for more details Hugs Krissi

[cheyriver]

Krissi, I'm sorry to hear you haven't been well. :( I hope you feel better soon.

I haven't been on for awhile but wanted to check in to say I'm still alive. I've been experiencing medical issues with my arm, already had two surgeries in the past, may need another one.

I will try to come on more often. I miss everyone.

[blossom4th]

Krissi,
I hope you're feeling better! :)

Cheyriver,
Good to hear from you! I hope your arm gets better soon! :)

[Kashis]

Thought I should check in I am ok just a few glitches with my TBI from working so hard on the dv page which is now over 200 friends that are showing support and fighting to help stop the violence I did just add wings for a memorial of a girl who passed as she didn't get out in time from domestic violence she passed on 11-7-07 so recently it was hard but I did it for all of us to show just how bad the situation is I cried so hard when I did this but it had to be done

If you know of someone who died from dv and want to add a memorial just let me know and I am more then willing to add memorial wings for them as its well deserved as they suffered so and deserve to be treated as human beings even after death Hugs Krissi

[Kashis]

checking in wow been along time since we all did so I thought i would start it well i haven't been on I fainted and we finally found out why my dizzy spells and faint attacks have been happining its my blood pressure is getting to low and i am on meds for low blood pressure for migraines so if we change them i get the migraines with out the meds it was 14 in a row I am down to 2 now so its a now win situation

been working hard on the dv page contacting goverment officials etc.. and trying to make a change the 50 wings I didn't get put up instead a movie on the 50 that passed as it wouldn't let me put 50 up I have to do them one at a time so that was a let down but the movie really touches the heart alot

I have had to raise meds again as I can't eat or talk again due to facial nerve pain and the weather isn't helping and on a good note working on some crafting again to keep busy

my youngest moved out and the house is my kingdom now so to say I am queen of my castle an got my space back YAHOOOOOOOOO :pI love my kids but this one me and her are like water and oil so its a slight blessing

I must have the least stress possible due to brain swelling

so now how is everyone else I know cheryriver is having surgery but I know there are more of us so please check in I miss you all :rolleyes:

[tic chick]

hey krissi! *happy

it's so nice to see you posting again.

i'm sorry you're having problems with migraines and low blood pressure and that the meds aren't working right for you. hopefully, you can keep working with your doctor and find the right medications for you!

i'm so happy to hear that you are working towards your goal of trying to raise awareness of domestic violence.

krissi! your my space page is amazing! so much new stuff since i last looked. it truly is an inspirational site! i hope everybody who goes there leaves with the strength to do what they have to do. the people who have died because of domestic violence are a reminder that it can happen to ANYONE.

keep up the good work!

1808 jeannie

[blossom4th]

Hi Krissi,
Glad to hear you're feeling better! Blood pressure can go wacky either way! :eek: I have a neice who used to faint because of her BP being too low.
I hope that having less stress and being able to get back to working with crafts will help! :)
Your compassion and great efforts for victims of domestic abuse are admirable! One day soon it will be eradicated! :)

[Kashis]

I thank you all for looking at the page I have put alot of hours into it its almost become a job thats why posting here has been slow but I do look and see what's up I do have new posts coming that I have researched so be sure to watch for them
This page has become my life and if you have joined myspace my first friend you can learn about me and who I am and see my kreations too I have left that page to work on the other but its still there so just so you know

I was given a survivor scroll to put on my page by one of the friends which there are so many that has my pic so you can see me for the first time you will know who you are talking too and where the posts are coming from

The angel wings are still going up one at a time and I have another set to go up as soon as I get all the information this page has helped me heal things I didn't even know still existed which is awesome for me as I needed to let go and the page and this group have shown me that I am not alone and I can do anything I put my mind to I always said If I could just change one persons life it would make a difference and now I am changing hundreds of lives which makes me feel so good inside and now I see that my mental abuse topic is well on the way to 3000 so thats alot of readers its incredible that making a change came so far for me and I won't stop until I die because I want things to change for the best Domestic violence isn't Domestic Violence anymore its terrorisim in the home which should be looked at as terrorism and thats where I am at now

Thanks all for watching the page and keep watching as there will always be new things to add as I find them I miss all you and our talks this post is awesome as at least we can take a moment to let all know were ok and whats up

[Kashis]

Just checking in I have my hubby's surgery tomorrow so you won't see me posting for awhile not like I don't have a ton of them alreday LOL but still in case I am missed you will all know why I haven't been here

please if you need angel wings for someone who died from abuse pm me and I will do this for you when I get back on

I myself am suffereing bad migraines and facial pain again so it stinks but somthing I have to live with tough but I have no choice
but just wanted to check in to say Hay I am ok Hugs Krissi

[JAVISI]

Kashis,
I hav been gone a long time ndue to chronic health problems. I have missed posting here. Even though I am out of a abusive relationship, I was in it for over 20 years.

A woman was shot by her boyfriend in a near by town. He shot her in the head. My heart breaks for her and her familly. I hate the thought that there are so many poepleare nin secret abusive relationships. We also have a woman missing, she has been gone for about 3 weeks. Everyone suspects the husband but they can not find her body any where.

I am thankful that I got the courage to leave and not go back it has been 2 years since I left and it is the best thing I ever did. I was scared at first but the fear is slowly subsiding. I will be glad when I can have total peace in my heart. I am slowly gaining back.

Dreaming Big and Reaching for the Stars, Javisi

[Kashis]

I have been putting angel wings up for those who passed from dv on my page the link is under my name if you would like to check it out anyway I am glad your back and hopefully I can get back to as I have a list of new posts all this time away taking care of the hubby has really given me time to think of things that need to be addressed yet that I haven't touched on I miss you all and can't wait to come back and talk again a few weeks yet as my hunny is only comfy in my comp chair he had a cervical lemonactomy they cut his c5 c6 and got a crushed nerve out and he just got the staples out last week now the fun part I get to enhance all the pics so they can be seen ish just what I want to see that part again LOL but must do it so work comp and work have what they need incase they every question any of this as a pic is worht a thousand words but still not looking forward to this part at all I seen enough changing the bandaid thank GOD my child is going to be a nurse cause without her I couldn't have got threw it so all my love to all and can't wait to post again so much I want and need to address as I have alot of probs with flashbacks too no one is alone in this one and its time I post so we can all get through this part together Hugs

[tic chick]

hey krissi! nice to see you back!

i see you changed your avatar to a heart from the blue ribbon. any reason?

i've been busy, doing gardening, it's time to put the veggies and flowers in. i also had a nasty abcess on my thigh that had to be surgically opened and now i have a hole in my thigh that neeeds to be changed and repacked daily...probably for the next 3 weeks. i can't ride my exercise bike, so, i'm trying to keep moving with yardwork and stuff.

i'll have to check out your page to see if you've updated it recently.

have a good week, krissis and i hope your hubby isn't a difficult patient :).

(((((hugs))))
jeannie

[cheyriver]

Krissi,

I have been away for awhile also due to arm surgery and now complications from it. Grrrr. How is your husband recovering from his surgery?

[Kashis]

Hi dear the hubby is doing well but boredem is kicking in terribly I am just starting to get caught up on things finally as best i can I have lots to write but haven't yet done that either now my back is out so can only handle the comp for so long slow but sure when he gets back to work then I will start writing again looking forward to it so many thoughts stirring in this head of mine ready to be written so I am just now starting on getting caught up with answering comments and getting to this page finally I hope all are well an your arm is better hugs Krissi

[Kashis]

As everyone knows I am always here but just checking in to say Hi I am doing ok took a few days off to craft but thats about it so wanted to just check on everyone and make sure everyone is doing ok Hugs Krissi

[tic chick]

hey krissi!

been dealing with a virus myself. will see you soon!

jeannie

[Kashis]

went to the dr today will find out results if I am in premenoupausal state had blood work done so if anyone went through this please warn me of what I have to look forward too please pm me I can't take hormones so they can't control it that way so good chance I will be talking hysterectmy we will see how this all plays out it all started as I am getting pms every 2 weeks and my family started at around 38 that be my age now so most of the hysterectmys were done by this time cause we can't do hormones this was the choice due to this I will talk with him more when the results come just wanted to give yah'll the heads up

My migraines are hanging in there so to say I did get a shot today for one as my contract with the er expired and there giving me a hard time so I told the dr asap as my mother is coming for a week visit yes I know my main trigger but I am taking her to the fair as ours is the 2nd largest in the world so she has always asked and she is at that age in her life that I have forgotten the bad as I don't want her to pass with me holding a grudge and feeling the guilt of never forgiving I will never forget but to forgive has helped me heal so I am sure between the 21st and the 28th I will be posting alot as I will need to let loose if she starts with me just so I can handle it calmly thank GOD she knows she is a trigger point and will keep calm for me and its me and her alone so I think I can tame her tomorrow I start making the schedule of what we will do day by day so I can keep her busy and me sain Hugs Krissi oh yah thanks for listining