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debhun
10-22-2007, 05:55 PM
As many of you know my daughter got married this past sat. Well All hell let lose Thursday. Mom and I found out she didn't have nothing done. The flowers got lost so they got there on Friday. Mom and my Aunt Kay and I had to throw this wedding together in a fast and hurry up. We had to put the Church together she had nothing for the church. The flower for the reception and wedding had to be made and bows for the church doors and pews.
cooked for a sit down dinner after the wedding etc.. Now know that she knows all this had to be done but went out to the bars Thursday Friday and Sat night. On top of that Mom and dad and I was about to go to the Rehearsal and here comes Heather with food. I said okay we can put it in the ref. Wrong. She had every one to come over to moms for the Rehearsal dinner. Which was just cold cuts ect.. So a 9:30 at night Mom and I are hurrying to make tea and coffee after Rehearsal. I am about to bend over with pain but I did it how? I don't know how.
was up at 6 AM to start all the cooking for after the wedding dinner and dance. So My DH was a great help. While mom and went to get our hair done he did the potatoes and carrot's to put in the pork lone I cook a roast Beef and rice Green beans sweet potato casserole and Dad made tea for 100 people.
Any way we where late for the wedding about 10 mins cause we had to take the food to the hall she had rented. Will I can tell you the wedding was all wrong. I am the mother of the bride But Was sat wrong. My X's wife sat in my place. She said something I really don't know what I just said no big deal just want out of my pain. I had to take 1 more perc than I am to do. But hell if I cared. I will get them straight later.
Will after ther wedding to the hall we go. Thank God for my aunt and my best friend. they had all the food out.

Then I really went dumb. My Son in law for 7 years danced with me for the first time ever. I didn't go to my first daughter wedding cause we got flooded by Floyd in 99. He said he miss that one so this was to make up for that. Well Nice slow dance. then the twist came on. He wanted me to do that with him. BIG BIG misstake. I pulled my Achilles tendon again. But I pushed thought the pain for the rest of the night. Got home. Had to get 2 beds ready for Mandy and son in law and a friend of theirs. Then I took my BP med My clodapin opana nd musclerelaxer I didn't wake up till 10 AM Ihaven't done that in 15 years. I never put my cloths on Sunday I felt that bad. Will last night I didn't sleep at all. I was in that much pain. I have done nothing today. I will do nothing for the rest of the week. I do have doc appt Wed I really need to go to.but will try and get my pain under control some how. I have 1 more daughter that is getting married. But I think my dad and mom and aunt Kay and I have talked them into Vegas. We told them we would pay for it. After Wane seen what happen with Heathers he said it was fine with him. Thank God. My Son has a ways to go I hope.

But Over all it was nice after we got to the wedding itself. We felt okay with
what we did in a hurry.

Well sorry I went on & on. Thanks for all the support you all gave me.

The done Mom*ohno
Deb

Boxerlover
10-22-2007, 10:11 PM
Deb, now you can relax. I don't know how you did all that, bless your heart. If I were you, I'd go to bed and not surface for a week. I'm sorry you were stuck with things at the last minute, and I know how stressful weddings are.

My folks offered us money to elope, but we didn't take it, although my mom was was sick then (she also has cp) and it really did her in. She was recouping forever.

Take care of you and get some rest.
Melissa

cindybear
10-23-2007, 12:43 AM
Bless your heart...
I hope she appreciates everything you did..I would have been beat too..You are a very good mother,,,And she should be very honored to have you in her life..CP or no...Now you take it easy and have deb time,,,HUgs, Cindy

Mark N
10-23-2007, 05:31 AM
You have a well deserved rest and though your daughter doesn't sound like one that appreciates all you did, she should. I know you did much more than you should have and I hope you don't pay the price for the next several weeks. Take as much rest as you need.

BrokenBladder
10-23-2007, 05:57 AM
Deb,

Bless your heart for everything you did for your daughter. She will hopefully know someday the sacrafice you made to make this wedding happen.

Now take some time for yourself and REST!! You deserve it and a whole lot more!!

Kathi49
10-23-2007, 07:00 AM
Deb,

I, too, say bless your heart. It's too bad your daughter didn't sit up and take notice of everything you were doing and should have helped out more. But...I would crawl into bed and not surface for a week! :) Get all the rest you need.

debhun
10-23-2007, 09:46 AM
I thank you all. I am not doing anything. I can barley move. I hope to get it uncontrolled soon. If not well I well call the PM and in a week or 2 if not better by then. And No she wasn't said nothings to me or anyone that pulled this together. I even kept Jayden for 3 nights.
Any way it is over and I am trying to rest all I can which is all day


Deb

Mark N
10-23-2007, 11:17 AM
Deb, rest as much as you can for as many days as you can. Sorry your daughter wasn't appreciative nor helpful for her part of the wedding.

houghchrst
10-23-2007, 02:12 PM
My goodness that was an awful lot of stress and work, you did a wonderful job and deserve a nice long quiet rest. Hopefully your daughter will come to realize how much work you have done and grow to appreciate you more.