Kashis
09-19-2007, 02:48 PM
I thought my oldest was being abused its a sticky situation and we confronted the guy we told him if it was happining he was going to feel it himself he knew we weren't kiding as we sat in our living room looking at each other me and my husband just wanting to smack the crap out of the guy
afraid my daughter wouldn't admit it we so wanted to step in then your stuck
I was willing to take the chance of my daughter never speaking to me again to save her life I didn't care I wanted to show him what abuse was but was stopped as violence with violence doesn't work and we had to pray she was smart enough to get out and not in denial and he was telling the truth as he knew the conseqenses MOM AND DAD weren't going to take it and we will stop it
then you must think again will he rebel on my child if we do this or will he learn its tough when its your child but I would rather my child not talk to me for a long time then ever see her abused but it was the hardest decison of my life
I chose to let it go yet it still sits in the back of my mind if she has a bruise of any kind her friends let me know immediatly to get involved to remind this guy were not going to take it and if he don't stop it we will
He is terrified of her parents we have done nothing but this is the way we want it to insurue our childs saftey
Never back down from your childs abuser let them know your watching and won't hesitate to take care of the situation even if your child is in denial
to this day this boy kisses our butts I call him eddie haskel myself but really what would you do
IF YOU KNOW THERE IS VIOLENCE YOU CAN HELP STOP IT THERE IS A WAY DON'T LET THEM THINK THAT YOU WILL ALLOW THIS TO BE DONE TO YOUR CHILD STAND UP FOR YOUR CHILD WHEN YOU SEE THEY WON'T DO IT THERE SELVES ITS ALL WE HAVE TO SAVE THEM SHE IS 22 BUT ALWAYS MY BABY
afraid my daughter wouldn't admit it we so wanted to step in then your stuck
I was willing to take the chance of my daughter never speaking to me again to save her life I didn't care I wanted to show him what abuse was but was stopped as violence with violence doesn't work and we had to pray she was smart enough to get out and not in denial and he was telling the truth as he knew the conseqenses MOM AND DAD weren't going to take it and we will stop it
then you must think again will he rebel on my child if we do this or will he learn its tough when its your child but I would rather my child not talk to me for a long time then ever see her abused but it was the hardest decison of my life
I chose to let it go yet it still sits in the back of my mind if she has a bruise of any kind her friends let me know immediatly to get involved to remind this guy were not going to take it and if he don't stop it we will
He is terrified of her parents we have done nothing but this is the way we want it to insurue our childs saftey
Never back down from your childs abuser let them know your watching and won't hesitate to take care of the situation even if your child is in denial
to this day this boy kisses our butts I call him eddie haskel myself but really what would you do
IF YOU KNOW THERE IS VIOLENCE YOU CAN HELP STOP IT THERE IS A WAY DON'T LET THEM THINK THAT YOU WILL ALLOW THIS TO BE DONE TO YOUR CHILD STAND UP FOR YOUR CHILD WHEN YOU SEE THEY WON'T DO IT THERE SELVES ITS ALL WE HAVE TO SAVE THEM SHE IS 22 BUT ALWAYS MY BABY