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xNikx
10-03-2006, 12:48 PM
Hello,
I posted a few times on the old board but didn't get a chance to ask this before it went down.
It's my mum who has an aneurysm. It's a giant one in her right cirotid artery. She's had one surgery to insert balloons into the artey closing it off altogether as that was the only option. It's too big to use coils. This surgery was risky as she now only has the left artery feeding her brain, but it worked!... for a little while.
A little vein opened up just after the balloons and is feeding the little bugger again. They tried another surgery to insert balloons into that vein, but it's too narrow and thay have no instruments small enough to do the job.

So now she still has it and is feeling a little bit down. They've told her to live her life now and do what she wants, which feels like a way of saying there's nothing more we can do.

She doesn't have the patience (or eye sight anymore) to use a computer, and she has no one to talk to about how she's feeling, who'll totally understand what she's going through.
What I was hoping was that if anyone on here would be willing to send her a letter?
If you typed it out then just printed it off and sent it, she'd be so greatful. I'm prepared to pay for the cost of postage and all that. I just want her to have someone to talk to about it all, someone who will know what she's going through is normal and she isn't alone.

I'm not sure how to go about starting it off, maybe anyone who's interested could pm me and I'll pm you my address? Maybe you could both start off with a letter about yourselves and see where it goes from there?
She'd love to write to someone about it, and anything else for that matter.

Hey, it's the old fashioned way! lol.
Thanks.
Nik.

dawnmn
10-03-2006, 06:18 PM
Nik,
I would love to write your mom a letter. I had a rupture almost five years ago and have had two coilings and stent operation since the rupture. Also, you don't have to pay postage. Not sure where your located but the good old fashion letter through the postal service would be fine. I'm sure there will be others who would do the same. Tell your mom that she is far from the only one who is dealing with these things even though I'm sure she feels that way. I did until I found this message broad. Dawn MN (you can send me a pm message with your mom's address and a little history about your mom)

FireflyR7
10-04-2006, 05:25 AM
:) I am Tricia, I would be happy to write your Mom! :D I had a rupture last June, long story but still homebound and recovering! You can send me her add. at: Firefly7225@aol.com I am a 47 year old F, I use to be a firefighter, my husband still is (33yrs) and a EMT. It has been a long hard struggle and she is not alone!! Just send me her address hun, and I will use large print for her! ;) Take care and if you want to correspond with me first to get to know me first that is fine too, just e-mail me. I will keep her in my prayers! Tricia :cool:

xNikx
10-07-2006, 02:31 PM
Hi guys,
Thanks so much for your replies!
Sorry I didn't get back on sooner to check, but it's been busy around here.
My mum has no idea that I did this, so I'll send you both my address, with her name, so I can pass your letters on without opening them. Then, when she replies she can decide wether to pass her address on or keep using mine.
Thanks again!
Nik.

FireflyR7
10-07-2006, 06:14 PM
:D It would be my pleasure to write your Mom!! Can you give us some kind of idea what she is like, or what are of her favorite things? I hope she is doing ok!! We could e-mail you our letters & you can print them out if you like? it would be a lot faster than the mail. Take care & just let us know!! Love Tricia

Lisa Sobocinski
11-03-2006, 06:19 AM
Good Morning Nik,

I would love to communicate with your mom. I am new to this site. Just learning it. I just had surgery on Oct 19th of this year on a 1.5 cm annie...which was clipped.....going back to my dr today to set up second surgery on a 6mm annie which will be coiled...pls pm mw with an email address so I can communicate with her. I agree with fireflyr7...much quicker way then usps....look forward to hearing from you...Love, Lisa

FireflyR7
11-03-2006, 06:32 AM
:) Just let us know if you want us to write to you via computer & you can just print them out & give them to her, or write? Either way is fine! Please give us a little background info. about her & her interest... ;) Take care hun, she is in my prayers!! Tricia

Hi Lisa, welcome to the site! Please let us know what your Dr's have to say and when your next surgery is. How are you feeling since the first one? I was a year post surgeries Oct. 21. I had a rupture though. :o I know pretty much about these now! I would be more than happy to answer any questions you have?? I will keep you in my prayers!! Tricia

Suzanne*Canada
11-03-2006, 09:47 AM
HI there I have sent you a PM.....


Suzanne